Hospitality is Not Burdensome

People wonder 'is it exhausting catering for 20 people at your home every Tuesday night?'  Joy discussed this and we want to spell out why the answer to that question is no.  Yes, it is a certain amount of work, but it is not too much to bear.

Let's use 1 John 5:3-4 to examine the matter. 

"And his commandments are not burdensome. 4 For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith." (ESV)

Yes, we are commanded to show hospitality.  And it feels right not just to worship together but to eat together each week.  But when we think of all that God commands, serving supper every week is not such a hard task.

1. Every member should be serving, not just us the hosts (Eph 4).  Praise God one of the baby believers comes early each week and helps cook.  The expats help humbly too.  Amazingly, we've even seen the K men help out with clearing up and making tea- usually the prerogative of the hens not the roosters!
2. We get the children to help.  This sometimes goes well, not always; but we see ourselves as a household serving the saints together (1 Cor 16:15)
3. We are 'reducitarian' in diet.  We think of meat as something special (cf Luke 15), not something to eat every day.  So we are content with rice and beans and salad.
4. Notice in 1 John 5: what is it that makes this kind of hospitality manageable?  Let's paraphrase these verses a bit:
   And his command 'show hospitality' is not burdensome. 4 For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world's demand that eating together always be fancy. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith that God is calling together a group who will carry eachother's burdens."